I was waiting for my partner to pick me up from work the other day and I decided to study the tulips growing where I work. So many times when we look at things we look quickly at the outside and move on with our day. I was surprised that I had never done this... Continue Reading →
10 reasons why you should never assume something
There is a phrase that I live by: "never assume — you'll make an ass out of U and me.." This is a hard-learned lesson for myself and many others I'm sure. Photo by Olya Kobruseva on Pexels.com Inevitably, every time I assume something, I am usually dead wrong. Sometimes I find myself saying "well, I... Continue Reading →
10 tips for an old-school road trip
Recently, we took an impromptu road trip, which spanned three states in 14 hours. To be fair, the trio of states were in the northeast corner of Kansas. We managed to hit Kansas (of course, we live there), Nebraska and Missouri. Below are some of my tips for taking a memorable old-school road trip. OLYMPUS... Continue Reading →
Funeral Museum in St. Joseph, Mo.
Driving by a quiet funeral home in St. Joseph, Mo., you'd never expect there to be a hidden little museum, but that's exactly what is located in the Heaton-Bowman-Smith Sidenfaden Chapel, located at 3609 Fredrick Ave., in St. Joseph. On display in the museum is caskets, historical tools used by morticians and funeral homes, and... Continue Reading →
Good attitudes are contagious
It's true what they say that kindness, happiness and smiles are contagious. I was on my way into work recently and I had just had a good laugh with my partner. I had this wide, authentic smile on my face as I got out of the vehicle and headed into the building. I looked over... Continue Reading →
The people behind the scenes
How many times do we sit back and think about the people behind the scenes that make life easier for us, for the events we attend, the restaurants we eat at? I could take a guess and say not many of us. I was thinking about this when I was driving to work and writing... Continue Reading →
Those fundraising candy bars
A co-worker brought a box of candy bars into the office this week to sell on behalf of her kid. I greedily bought two, tucked one away in my snack drawer and ate the first one. A few minutes later the second one was calling for me. I ate it, too. Photo by Vie Studio... Continue Reading →
Sometimes just listen …
I was too young to know the gravity of what she was telling me. But, even at my young age, I knew my only job was to listen to her. To give her a place to tell her story — possibly for the first time in her life. I often wonder if that helped her. If she unloaded a life-long burden that day.
Daylight Savings Time + Haiku
There is this bird who lives in a bush in front of my house who is honestly the most annoying wild bird on this planet (or at least where I live). This bird will sit in that bush and tweet as loud as it can.
When I became more open + why it’s important to be openly accepting
Don't be afraid to declare yourself an ally. But don't just do that, do your homework on how to be a great ally.